Honesty is what most people claim they want but many times we are not ready for it.  Being honest sometimes causes our lovers to cry, become angry, to feel insecure or even not enough and it may make us feel like a bad person.  The situation is tough on both people and if the relationship goes under due to honesty that just means someone in the relationship was not ready.  Not being ready is something that all of us experience and maybe next time we will be ready.  Trauma, insecurities, immaturity, lack of confidence and lack of knowledge, are commonly part of the reason why we are not ready for honesty or the hard conversations they can come with.  Connect with me on instagram: one_yacht_doc and if you want to support the podcast cash app me at $KimmSav.