Love Lab MD with Dr. Kate Mangona

33. What Would Love Do? with Dr. Jessie Mahoney


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WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER IN THIS EPISODE

 

Medicine: 

  • A pediatrician promoting physician wellness for 20 years at a large HMO

 

Marriage: 

  • Going on her first date with her future hubby at age 15!!!! (future hubby was 14!!!)
  • How being long distance was good for their relationship
  • How she decided that her hubby was her person
  • When she accepted her hubby’s passive, introverted nature 

 

Money:

  • How growing up in a scarcity financial mentality and her hubby growing up in an abundance financial mentality has affected how they handle money together
  • Why money is not a good measure of love
  • The absence of financial discussions in her marriage and how and why this works
  • Why financial freedom is not the answer for her household

 

Mindfulness & Yoga:

  • How she brings mindfulness to coaching
  • Why yoga does not mean standing on her head
  • How accepting “what is” has enhanced her life

 

TAKE HOME POINTS FROM Dr. Jessie Mahoney

  1. When feeling stuck, Jessie loves to ask herself two questions: 
    • What would love do?
    • What would compassion do? Love would let people show up exactly as they are. Sometimes we cannot fix things. Most of the time the other person needs to do the fixing and we can just love and have compassion. Having more compassion for herself would also allow her to grow from any situation in life regardless if other people would see it as a failure or argument or strain….
  2. The grass is greener where you water it!!!!! It is not necessarily better somewhere else.
  3. Boundaries come from love. 
  4. We spend a year planning our wedding and no time planning our marriage.

WALK AWAY ASKING YOURSELF

  • What would love do?
  • What would compassion for me do?
  • What would compassion for my spouse do?
  • How can I be thoughtful about my money?
  • What message would I like to imprint upon this world?

 

FEATURED ON THIS SHOW

  • Website: www.jessiemahoneymd.com
  • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessie.mahoney.56
  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessiemahoneymd/
  • Podcast: themindfulhealerspodcast.com
  • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7LfxLU3jmBdiScY-_24OBg

 

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Love Lab MD with Dr. Kate MangonaBy Kate Mangona, MD

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