On today's episode: "You know them well enough that when you hit bumps in the road with your relationship and misunderstandings come up, they’ve shown you enough of who they really are so that you can more easily see their intentions behind it all. You’ve hopefully learned enough about their history that you understand why they do the things they do. If you base your assumptions on what you learned by coming into their lives intermittently and don’t stick around to fill in the middle, you’ll misunderstand."