Since 1984, the gay best friend has been a staple character in movies and TV, often being portrayed as sexless and sassy. However, this stereotype—while often thought to be innocent—can actually be harmful and damaging.

In this episode, we discuss the origins of the gay best friend trope and cover the negative impact it can have on gay men.

Additional Resources:

• Gay Best Friend (Urban Dictionary)
• A History of the Gay Best Friend in Film and TV
• Gay Best Friend: A Letter to Straight People from the 'GBF'
• Just Because I’m Gay Doesn’t Mean I Want to Be Your Sidekick
• How to Find Your Gay Best Friend
• The Evolution of the Gay Best Friend in Romantic Comedies
• The “Trans Best Friend” is Hollywood’s Hottest New Accessory

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