The first one is when 1) You have to be right. Contention. Next is when you seek for 2) Affirmation, attention, and approval before mutual trust & respect is achieved. Third is holding a grudge and not learning how to forgive and forget, and finally 4) is The Drama Triangle. Today we cover #1, the drive to always be right. It’s at the core of contention in a relationship.

The first one is when 1) You have to be right. Contention. Next is when you seek for 2) Affirmation, attention, and approval before mutual trust &amp; respect is achieved. Third is holding a grudge and not learning how to forgive and forget, and finally 4) is The Drama Triangle. Today we cover #1, the drive to always be right. It’s at the core of contention in a relationship.

35 FOUR FATAL BEHAVIOR ADDICTIONS IN MARRIAGE

We are each hard wired to connect. When we don’t connect it hurts and when it hurts, too often we medicate in a fashion that brings about more pain. Authentically You is a breath of fresh air and in our 3rd year of sharing, we’re just scratching the surface. Instead of focusing on problems, Dr. Richard Himmer and his lovely bride, Cheri, focus on solution-based conversation. Listen to what 37+ years of a happy marriage sounds like. They have no problem with conflict; however, they don’t engage in contention. Conflict is a focus on what is right and is necessary for growth. Contention is a focus on who is right and is the primary source of discord, divorce, bullying, poor management, and dysfunctional relationships. Authentically You is the energy behind discovering happiness, joy, and well-being. When you know who you are, you are free to become your true self. Too many people want happiness without the necessary skills and understanding that support the lifestyle of being happy.

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35 FOUR FATAL BEHAVIOR ADDICTIONS IN MARRIAGE

35 FOUR FATAL BEHAVIOR ADDICTIONS IN MARRIAGE