This episode is your reminder that it’s okay to be single, it’s okay to wait, and it’s okay to hold onto the vision of the love you truly desire.

I sit down with coach, intuitive, and psychic Lara Bokovay, who shares her raw and inspiring journey of walking away from a five-year marriage, choosing celibacy for five years, and doing the deep inner work to heal her wounds and reconnect with her authentic self.

In this conversation, we explore:

• The power of asking yourself: How do you want to be loved? And are you ready to receive it?
• Why validation from men isn’t the same as alignment, and how universal redirection shows up.
• Healing the wounded feminine, unpacking family wounds, and reclaiming sovereignty.
• The truth about intimacy: physical closeness doesn’t equal emotional depth.
• Why being single is not a punishment, but a season to build your empire and strengthen your self-worth.

Most importantly, Lara shares her passionate belief in being patient and uncompromising when it comes to love. Her words are a permission slip for every single woman listening.

“Hold the vision of what you want for yourself, there is no compromise” 

“Acknowledge the ‘not right now,’ and keep living your life. What is meant for you will not pass you by.”

This episode is for the woman who needs the reminder that solitude is better than settling, that self-worth is found within, and that the right partner will meet you with clear intentions when the timing is divine.

Stay tuned for Part 2 of this conversation!

💌 If this conversation spoke to you:

Connect with Lara Bokovay and find out more about her work here: ⁠https://www.larabokovay.com/⁠

Connect with your host Vanessa Maree on Instagram @vanessamaree_wingwoman⁠⁠

Follow the podcast page ⁠⁠@singleandnotsettling.podcast⁠⁠

Share this episode with a friend who needs the reminder not to settle!