It's so easy to "freeze" when it comes to transitioning from one stage in life to another. This time of year so many teens are focused in on the transition from high school into adult life and all that comes with it:

bills

housing

relationships

career

lifestyle

So many questions need to be answered.

I recommend starting by looking within and trying to understand how we're wired. Deeply understanding our likes, tendencies, preferences, communication styles, how we interact with others, etc. 

A great place to start is with a DISC personality assessment. Get your own assessment here: https://www.personalityservice.com/portal/MMZX