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WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER

 

Medicine:

• Why Tim wanted to practice rural medicine
• What stalking a medical school classmate looks like
• Leaving love notes during medical school
• How having good mentors can make a huge difference
• Where you grow is not in the roses 

 

Marriage: 

• How a marriage can feel bigger than the individual
• Living in a trailer like vagabonds after the birth of their second child?
• How they worked through the “I don’t love you anymore” 
• How Tim was her Knight in Shining Armour
• Friendship was the foundation of her marriage

 

Love Languages:

• Why knowing your needs is KEY
• Why you need to learn to love yourself before loving your spouse
• Why knowing your spouses needs is important
• Whether marriages based on love or trust
• How letting each other to do things separately builds trust

TAKE HOME POINTS FROM Drs. May & Tim Hindmarsh

1. In a successful marriage, the relationship is often bigger than either person. 
2. “God tells us to love our enemies, but I am not going to marry them.” Although love is elevating, marriage is not ONLY based on love.
3. The gravity with which a relationship orbits is trust. Although I do not always agree with my spouse, do I trust them 100%. 
4. It is getting through the hardships that make or break a relationship. The easy stuff...the fun stuff...the honeymoon stuff does not matter. We are ALL good at supporting our spouse through good times. It becomes more difficult to be supportive when the bad times roll in.

WALK AWAY ASKING YOURSELF

• Was I born at an early age??? (just kidding)
• How do I model constructive conflict?
• Where am I looking for happiness?
• Could it be more freeing to stop looking for happiness and be okay with not being happy all the time?
• Is happiness always my goal? If so, why?
• Do I give myself permission to be unhappy?

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