Carson was a former flame who felt like The One, until he disappeared. One year later, who should appear in Heather’s Bumble queue? None other than Carson the Conundrum. Today we’re talking about the difference between The Who and The How in dating, men who think you have amnesia, and how when we’re struggling, maybe it’s time to talk about it. We all know it can be hard to find someone who really fits, but a whirlwind romance is never a bad thing, even if it ends earlier than expected.