Holly Hartman is the best selling author of "I AM: How to Release the Shame of Narcissistic Abuse",  a Life Transformation and Recovery Coach, Domestic Violence Advocate, and Podcaster. 

She and I talk about the importance of solo dating, having an affair with yourself, whether you are single or in partnership. Solo dating is an act of self discovery and act of heroic self love. 

Like me, Holly learned to love herself from a grief place.  Our pain is our purpose. 
Her catalyst moment was the experience of domestic violence. 
She explains her journey to self validation and empowerment and how she intentionally and unapologetically began solo dating. 

This is a soulful and rich conversation about self love, pain points, jealousy, motherhood, and pleasure. One of my favorite moments was when we talked about breaking the generational patterns of self-sacrificial motherhood. 

To reach Holly Hartman:
Solodatechallenge.com
Podcast: Solo Date Challenge
Book: "I AM: How to Release the Shame of Narcissistic Abuse" 

To reach Pasha Marlowe:
pashamarlowe.com
Free call: https://calendly.com/pashamarlowe/30min
Book:  "My Next Husband Will Be a Lesbian" 

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