Life Be Lifing

36: How To Date Seriously


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You can multi-date and seriously date at the same time. I recommend keeping it between 1 to 2 guys. You don’t want to keep giving yourself away in pieces. 

 

Seriously Dating 

  • Dating with expectations of (eventually being exclusive & something long term)
  • Seeing and living the potential of where things can go 
  • Are their words and actions aligning or not? 
  • When he says he wants to see you does he really try? 

 

What Seriously Looks Like 

  • He communicates 
  • He does what he says 
  • You’re sharing experiences 
  • Meeting friends/family 
  • Seeing their place 
  • Open and honest communication 
  • Honoring each other’s love languages 
  • A serious relationship will challenge you/ push you to grow depending on the kind of partner you have and want 

 

Conversations To Have: 

  1. Ask each other what a relationship looks like to you
  2. What are your long-term goals? 
  3. What are some of your interests and hobbies? 
  4. What are some fun activities you like? 
  5. Don’t worry about being nice, be honest 
  6. Finances can be discussed 
  7. Where do you see yourself in 5 to 10 years? 
  8. What are some values you align yourself with?
  9. What are your triggers? 
  10. How do you handle conflict? 

 

Don’ts 

  1. What’s your credit score? 
  2. What’s your body count? 
  3. Are you paying? 
  4. Don’t ask about the ex
  5. Where did things go wrong…
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