When we judge or criticize another person, it says more about us than it does about him or her. And it's not only unhelpful but actually hurtful, counterproductive, and contrary to anything that can lead to a more peaceful you and a more peaceful, cooperative world.

What happens when you give in to the temptation to criticize or judge? Feelings of anger, resentment, distrust, ill will, and overall negativity can take over and spread like gangrene. Not a good strategy, is it? Attacking someone causes them to either retreat in fear or shame or lash out in anger, both of which do not make things better for them, you, or the world. Ever been subjected to that sort of beatdown? How did it make you feel? And think of a moment you might have laid someone out in that way even if it wasn't so intense. Didn't feel great, did it? It is deflating and saddening on both ends. 

Problem is that being critical and judgmental can become a habit if we're not careful. One's need to routinely point out and broadcast the shortcomings of others is indicative of a deeply-rooted heart condition. If that's an issue for you (and we all have seasons where this can be something to work on) then look in the mirror and own what it is to admit that you need to take measures to turn away from that and toward tolerance, respect, and goodwill. Strip off the garment and belt of cursing that can be like a straitjacket and be more peaceful and happy. Guard yourself against allowing nasty, liquified negativity to soak in and penetrate down into your soul. 

Speak life and goodness into the lives of others and yourself. Life works so much better that way.

"Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ." (Ephesians 4:15) 

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Attributions:

"En t'attendant" from the album "Reflect" by Antoine Dufour.

https://antoinedufour.bandcamp.com/releases

https://soundcloud.com/antoinedufourofficial