Let’s Get Woo Woo Podcast #37 | S2 E15  DATING (a series) Part 5 - KAS P2 - Dirt.. TEA… LYING A55 Man! (recorded 10/12/2025)

BETTY! 💕101-year old incredible woman. Her advice to herself as a young woman was to “never marry”

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https://youtu.be/68XrGTf1-2k?si=TqTws8bXColiG1ys

In this episode of the Let's Get Woo Woo podcast, Vanessa Be shares her personal journey of navigating betrayal in relationships, reflecting on her experiences with a man she was dating who turned out to be married. She discusses the emotional turmoil, self-discovery, and empowerment that arose from this situation, emphasizing the importance of sharing one's story and the healing that comes from it. Vanessa also explores the complexities of relationships, the challenges of honesty, and her evolving views on love and independence.

Takeaways:

• I've been processing through it, like I do.
• There's clearly some work for me to do here.
• There's a lot of healing and freedom that comes when you tell your story.
• I was actually getting off cheap here.
• I was not facing the entire truth of it.
• I was really willing to compromise, like one of the most important parts of a relationship for you.
• I love being single. I love having my own life and my own space.
• I can do so much better by myself than I can with any man that I've ever met.
• I feel so bad for being the woman on the other side.

Keywords:

betrayal, relationships, self-discovery, empowerment, honesty, polyamory, emotional healing, personal growth, women's experiences, navigating love

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Context of the Dating Series

02:42

Recap of the Relationship and Its Dynamics

07:02

Lessons Learned from the Experience

15:14

Exploring Relationship Dynamics and Non-Negotiables

17:00

Choosing Myself Over Others

19:37

The Liberation of Being Single

22:03

Exploring Solo Polyamory

25:44

The Importance of Being Seen

27:28

Navigating Independence and Support

34:00

Confronting Societal Expectations

36:37

Empathy for the Other Woman

39:52

Processing Grief and Sadness

46:01

Proud of Personal Growth

54:26

The Need for Honest Conversations