Hey, it’s great to have you here! This week, I’m sharing some personal reflections on a topic I think we’ve all dealt with: disappointment, especially when things beyond our control don’t pan out as planned.

I’m opening up about the long wait for a promised promotion—a journey that many can relate to. It’s been tough waiting for over seven months while trying to stay motivated and handle the frustration of feeling stuck. In these situations, it can be tempting to let the resentment build, but I’ve realized how important it is to handle it in a constructive way.

Here’s what I’ve learned about dealing with these situations:

1. Keep the Lines Open: Don’t be afraid to periodically check in. Just make sure it’s spaced out and respectful. It helps signal to your employer that this is important to you.
2. Negotiate and State Your Worth: If there’s a delay, don’t hesitate to share your goals and expectations. If things are pushed further down the road, make it clear that you expect the terms to reflect your growth and dedication.
3. Explore Income Alternatives: Losing out on expected income can be frustrating, especially if you’ve been planning big moves (like home buying). Whether it’s freelancing, selling art, or a weekend gig like Uber, consider small side hustles that don’t add too much to your workload but can help you meet your financial goals in the meantime.

Your Growth is Worth Advocating For

Remember, it’s okay to expect more for yourself as you continue to grow. I believe we owe it to ourselves to ask for what we’re worth and to communicate that we’re not just waiting around. If your promotion or raise doesn’t come, keep moving forward. And always, always keep fighting for what you need to succeed.

Thanks for listening, and remember—you’re not alone in dealing with disappointment. Take care, and I’ll talk to you in the next episode!

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