In this grounding and vulnerable conversation, Vanessa Mareesits down with Brad Barnett, a fire dancer, speaker, and man on a mission to be “a beacon of hope for women who have bad stories.”

Brad opens up about his past, including a pivotal momentthat changed how he shows up in relationships and life. He shares his journey from old patterns to self-awareness, and how choosing celibacy has helped him reconnect with his values and purpose.

Together, they unpack:

- What men really mean when they say they’re “too busy”or avoid emotional honesty.

- The importance of communication, respect, and taking accountability.

- Why women should honour themselves as divine beings — the portal of life — and stay discerning in who they allow into their energy.

- What it looks like when a man is genuinely doing the innerwork.

This conversation is a reminder that good men do exist…(evenVanessa Maree was a little lost for words at the end!!) and that healing and respect can come from both sides.

Tune in for a heartfelt conversation about growth, integrity, and the power of self-respect in modern dating and connection.

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@bradthefirebender

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