Disclaimer: 

Be better than me in all of this. 

 

This is if you're single or even in a relationship. I’m pretty consistent with this I’m legit good with a once a month tuneup or I can even go longer. Romance and sensual. (Fair update on my neighbor) 

•  Send Sexy Messages

• Builds anticipation for what's to come if you know for sure you going there 
• Tell him what you want to do to him 
• Send him some thirst traps so he knows what he’ll get tonight

 

• Share Your Fantasies (Long term relationship with someone) 
• Express something you’ve never done but want to try

• Have sex in a new location

• Don’t be embarrassed. Share your fantasies over a glass of wine. Remember that you’re in a safe space.

 

• Attire: 

• What do and don’t wear sets of what’s about to go down
• Lingerie, cute underwear, thongs, jock straps, bodysuits lingerie come now for both men and women (edible underwear) 
• I love a ROBE in a heartbeat. Get a few in different colors, fabrics, and/or lengths 

 

• Atmosphere: 

• Set the mood with a aroma this includes the scent you put on you 
• I get my oils from the hood males… now you can get them from the beauty supply stores, but I try to buy black and I’ll drive the longer way to pick it up 
• Burn candles, incense, diffusers, sent that you pumpkin, lavender, vanilla, cinnamon, peppermint, and ginger aphrodisiacs 

 

• Playing music or subtle sounds

• Hot Wax, lubricant, body oils

 

• Foreplay:

• Best part of the entire situation 

 

• Slow kissing

• Find the pressure points on the body 

• (I get really submissive with a desire to please) Head, Stomach, Feet, Ears, Back 

 

• Role Playing

• Make the bedroom a judgement free zone
• Set limits in advance
• Pick from a list of relationships

 

• Send Sexy Messages

• It builds anticipation for what's to come
• Tell him what you want to do to him 
• Send him some thirst traps so he knows what he’ll get tonight

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