Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, Nateisha & Yusuf

Topic: Dear Nique

On today’s lunch date episode, the crew responds to a Dear Nique letter where the writer asks, “Will a ho phase help me regain my self-confidence?” The writer shares that she discovered her ex cheated multiple times and learning those details did not give her the closure she thought she needed. C.L. points out that the writer should not consume herself at all with why he cheated or how many times he cheated. He implies that that’s wasted energy. Guest, K. Antoinette, says that the writer subconsciously puts some blame on herself, and this is revealed when she writes, “I never turned him down sexually.” Nique disagrees that any of this is the woman’s fault, while everyone else says she likely ignored some red flags. The team analyzes the term ho phase. “Why would women want to duplicate the negative behaviors of men,” C.L. asks. K. Antoinette states that a healed, emotionally healthy woman who wants to explore her sexual freedom is liberating, but she points out that in this scenario, the writer is likely not healed. Yusuf says she doesn’t need to explore a ho phase; he says she needs to do some work on herself instead. To hear the depth of the dialogue and to hear the listeners reactions to this letter, tune in to today’s episode and leave feedback on RSP’s social media platform.

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