This week I interview the Notorious RZB - Rustom Z. Birdie. We open with a nostalgic discussion about our friendship, during which I reveal the height of my alcohol-induced narcolepsy, and my college crush that never went further than a makeout session prior to Rustom coming out. The remainder of the episode dives into all aspects of coming to terms with your sexuality - breaking the news to traditional parents, understanding how your identity fits within the broader gay community, thoughts on performative allyship, and diving into the wilder side of the gay scene in San Francisco. We close with a game of red flag dealbreaker - Silicon Valley tech bro edition.

Don't slide into Rustom's LinkedIn DMs - but DM him on Instagram for more SF bar recs : @zebirdman

To make things Instagram official : @interstatesandheartbreak

For dating commentary from my inner Carrie : interstatesandheartbreak.com

For any questions, business inquiries, or love letters : [email protected]

For a glimpse into my life when I'm not talking about dating : @lesliegnope