Work-Life Balance Confessions: Stories and Tips to Enlighten and Inspire How to Juggle What Matters

39: Finding a Work-Life Balance When The 'To Do' List is Never Done: Kerry's Story on Solo Motherhood, Job-Sharing and the Lure of the Expatriate Lifestyle


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This solo episode is dedicated to an anonymous "Work-Life Balance Confession" of a woman named Kerry (*not her real name), who did not want to reveal her identity.


Kerry's work-life balance story originally featured on the blog, and centred on the themes of finding a work-life balance when:


📋You have a never-ending ‘to-do list’

🤰You're a solo parent (Kerry pursued IVF with a sperm donor, so is raising her son independently)

🧑‍🧒You have a child with additional needs

💯You're a Perfectionist

👯‍♀️You're in a job-share



Kerry brings a new dimension to the work:life ratio I ask all my guests to reflect on, inserting the element of “play”, which for her has been lacking since becoming a mother:“It never feels like a day when I don’t have lots to do. Where is the fun? Where is the play?”


A reminder, if ever we need one, of how joy is so intrinsic to the pursuit of balance.


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Write-up of my original interview with Kerry: https://a-fine-balance.com/2023/06/07/finding-balance-when-the-to-do-list-is-never-done-kerrys-story-on-solo-motherhood-job-sharing-and-the-lure-of-the-expatriate-lifestyle/


On being a high-achiever and perfectionist:

38: How to Find a Work-Life Balance When You're a Perfectionist - Work, Life, Balance Lesson #8Work-Life Balance Confessions: Stories and Tips to Enlighten and Inspire How to Juggle What Matters


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On Single Parenting:

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Work-Life Balance Confessions: Stories and Tips to Enlighten and Inspire How to Juggle What MattersBy Dalya Wittenberg