We go through life trying to figure out who we are. As if that weren't enough, we also tend to try to figure out what everyone else wants us to be... What they *expect* us to be. If we live by them, some might say we're living someone else's perception of us - someone else's life.  Nonetheless, expectations can be good according to this episode's guests. They can serve as a drive to push us towards goals we wouldn't have otherwise considered. But, should we give "expectations" the power we usually do? Or should we just focus on the "now" or the path to get to the place we want to get? Have a topic you would like us to discuss? Do not hesitate to get in contact! Go to smalltalkaside.com