The Proclamation on the Family, 1995, reminded LDS that we have Heavenly Parents who sent us to this schooling period to learn the differences between good and evil if we expect to go back and live with God and other couples who attain exaltation.  We came here to marry, to have children if we are able, and we end up with 3 different spouses.  #1 is the bride and groom.  #2 is the mother/father of children.  #3 is the 'empty nest' period of life.  Each of these 'spouses' requires special care and treatment in order to enjoy the happiness that God planned for each married couple..