Counselors Can Help

40. To thrive in relationships, you need to learn this concept. Attachment!


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In today's show we will talk about attachment theory. This is probably the simplest and most effective relationship idea I believe there is. What basic traits and habits do some people have in relationships and how to use that information? As a motivation here, this will likely describe all the fights you have had and will likely continue to have. This is the key that can unlock a lot of frustration.

We reference a test in the show you can do. It is quick and easy and free. Go to the link https://openpsychometrics.org/tests/ECR.php The output will reveal your attachment style. Of note, in the show we reference anxious attachment. The chart will call that preoccupied attachment. What I call Avoidant, the test calls dismissing attachment. The test also names the upper corner as fearful avoidant, which we called disorganized. Take the test. Better yet, listen to the shows and take the test with your significant other. Discuss!

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Counselors Can HelpBy Merrill Fink

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