I’m getting personal about why I decided to retire from wedding photography after 12+ years—even though the business looked (and often felt) like a dream. I share how my capacity kept shrinking as I pushed through “booked and busy,” what wedding hangovers + chronic illness did to my body, and the 2023 destination wedding that finally made me ask, “Is this still worth it?” If you’re questioning your path (or quietly detaching from work you used to love), this episode gives you permission to pivot—without a meltdown or a 10-step plan.

Chapters

00:00 — When “good at it” isn’t good for me

02:03 — From “never weddings” to booked & busy

05:12 — Burnout, chronic illness, and the wedding hangover

08:34 — The trip that changed everything

11:16 — Permission to pivot (and what to ask yourself)

Key Takeaways

• Being great at something doesn’t automatically make it sustainable for your body, brain, or season of life.
• Capacity can shrink quietly even as your business grows; recovery days aren’t the same as real rest.
• Burnout isn’t always a dramatic collapse—sometimes it’s steady detachment from what you used to love.
• You’re allowed to pivot without a grand exit plan; your skills and experience come with you.
• Systems must evolve with you, or they’ll keep sending you back into burnout.

Mentioned In This Episode

HoneyBook — The CRM & Client Flow platform I’ve trusted for 7+ years. Try it free + 30% off your first year: simplysandrayvonne.ca/honeybook

Busy Season Email Survival Kit (Free) — Inbox templates for the days when your capacity is low, but the work still needs to get done: simplysandrayvonne.ca/survivalkit

Fix Your Foundations: Offboarding Edition — My 5-day email challenge that helps you actually end projects with less stress: simplysandrayvonne.ca/fixyourfoundations

The Cabana (Patreon) — Bonus content, extended interviews, and behind-the-scenes voice notes for photographers building sustainable businesses: simplysandrayvonne.ca/patreon

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