Sometimes when the going gets tough, the tough get to Work-Play-Love-ing…! Whether you're going hard at a dance party after a long weekend of parenting (and racing) like Lauren, or you've got renewed focus at work because an injury is keeping you off the field like Jesse, balancing relationships, sports, and work is just that—a balance. Listener questions are all about the hard stuff this week. Jesse and Lauren talk about racing (or not racing) after you've lost a loved one. They offer some dating advice for late bloomers (like them). They talk about how to navigate relationships when you've got a big training commitment. And they share their thoughts on message-board trolls.