The outcome or byproduct of wrestling with God is Wisdom. I don't claim to know all (not even close) but want to be willing to talk or speak towards challenging topics that I think we battle every day. I have noticed an ongoing thread of disorientation around the topic of sex outside of marriage. I am blessed to have a family and community that has always taught me and supported me in laying a solid foundation. But for a lot of us the Bible can quickly become the source of our disorientation. Based on a meditation my father wrote I wanted to have a high level discussion on this difficult topic of sex (this is a great conversation to have with your Dad ;). If you agree then great take some more time to really understand "why" - if you disagree then I would encourage you to really figure out "why is it you disagree". I hope we can all grow in sanctification and feel the joy of Redemption, Grace, and the Faith required to see Gods will.