Allow Yourself To Feel The Burn 

 

• It definitely stings 
• Allow yourself to feel every and embrace the feeling 
• These emotions don’t last forever (Thankfully) / Its not the end of the world
• There is risk in putting yourself out there, but there’s also a beauty in humanity
• Insecurities do arise like well what about me didn’t “make it” cause I was enamored 
• Take heed when action change because they speak louder than the words (ex: does he call when he says he will or FT) 
• Is there urgency?  / Is the excitement still there? / If he thinks about you he’ll show it! 

 

Self Reflection 

 

• Know your self worth 
• I got a taste of my own medicine 
• You think of should I rebel and cover the void with another person or thing
• Should I run and download another app and race to it 
• At this point I’m well aware these apps are all about personal validation and ego 
• I don’t want to rely on that
• Being single is enough 
• Karma is real 

 

Speak Truth 

 

• Now we don’t just blindly run into these situations 
• Legit was minding my business and not trying to entertain anyone, but he was persistent so I obliged 
• There are the Lawrences of the world / “The Nice Guy” with fuck boy tendencies 
• Definitely led me on, but I still held back emotionally
• I still love to revel in a crush and person who has mystery. The mystic of a person is attractive to me
• I still remain open because it would be unfair to my own lived experience 

 

Better Is On The Horizon 

 

• The blessing is I’ll never have to say shoulda, woulda, coulda 
• I put myself out there openly 
• Clearly, the other person offered something I wasn’t providing 
• Little to no access to me 
• There has to be an emotions 
• I don’t mind the hurt and I welcome it because its living proof that I’m alive 
• Once I was scared that I lost touch with emotion 

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