Allow Yourself To Feel The Burn

• It definitely stings
• Allow yourself to feel every and embrace the feeling
• These emotions don't last forever (Thankfully) / Its not the end of the world
• There is risk in putting yourself out there, but there's also a beauty in humanity
• Insecurities do arise like well what about me didn't "make it" cause I was enamored
• Take heed when action change because they speak louder than the words (ex: does he call when he says he will or FT)
• Is there urgency? / Is the excitement still there? / If he thinks about you he'll show it!

Self Reflection

• Know your self worth
• I got a taste of my own medicine
• You think of should I rebel and cover the void with another person or thing
• Should I run and download another app and race to it
• At this point I'm well aware these apps are all about personal validation and ego
• I don't want to rely on that
• Being single is enough
• Karma is real

Speak Truth

• Now we don't just blindly run into these situations
• Legit was minding my business and not trying to entertain anyone, but he was persistent so I obliged
• There are the Lawrences of the world / "The Nice Guy" with fuck boy tendencies
• Definitely led me on, but I still held back emotionally
• I still love to revel in a crush and person who has mystery. The mystic of a person is attractive to me
• I still remain open because it would be unfair to my own lived experience

Better Is On The Horizon

• The blessing is I'll never have to say shoulda, woulda, coulda
• I put myself out there openly
• Clearly, the other person offered something I wasn't providing
• Little to no access to me
• There has to be an emotions
• I don't mind the hurt and I welcome it because its living proof that I'm alive
• Once I was scared that I lost touch with emotion

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