Scripture for the week

• Proverbs 21:9 — Better to live on a corner of a roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.

• Proverbs 27:15 — A continual dripping on a rainy day and a quarrelsome wife are alike.

• Ephesians 4:29 — Speak only what builds others up.

• Proverbs 3:5 — Trust in the Lord, not in your own understanding.

• James 1:19 — Be quick to listen, slow to speak.

Why We Nag

• Fear: “If I don’t keep reminding, it won’t happen.”

• Control: Wanting it done our way, our time.

• Habit: It’s become automatic.

• Lack of trust: Not believing they’ll follow through without us.
  

  Positive Discipline Tips

1. Say it once, then follow through — Don’t repeat; let natural consequences do the teaching.

2. Hold family meetings — Problem-solve recurring issues respectfully.

3. Encourage over criticize — Replace “You never…” with “I appreciate when you…”

4. Pray before you speak — Invite God’s wisdom in.

5. Trust God with the outcome — Release the need to control with words.

• Pray before reminding.

• State the request clearly one time.

• Use natural/logical consequences instead of continued talking.

• Practice silence and trust—sometimes the most loving choice is to step back.

• Watch how respect and peace grow in your home.

Remember

Nagging doesn’t change hearts—God does.

Our role is to speak with grace, set healthy boundaries, and trust Him with the rest.

You are not responsible for changing anyone.