Single and Not Settling

43. #realtalk. Triggers, Truth and How I Feel about being Single at Christmas


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This wasn't the episode I planned to record.

I wanted to record an episode to hype up single women at Christmas, reminding you that you are enough, that it is OK to be single and that your life has so much meaning and value. While I still believe that to be true, I didn't have it in me to show up that way this time.

So instead, I am being real with you...more so than usual.

In this episode, I share openly what the past few weeks have brought up for me, the triggers, the quiet grief, the reflection that comes when the year is ending and you find yourself questioning your life's alignment, your choices and where you are right now.

I share why I have pulled away from social media, how a short trip to Byron Bay shifted so much, who showed up back into my life during Mercury Retrograde and the clique advice about being in a "high vibration", "you create your own reality and can change it at any time". Single women are exhausted!

So, if you are ending 2025 feeling reflective, uncertain, and quietly question where you are at, this episode is for you.

No silver linings.

No trying to "fix things"

Just honesty, self compassion and permission to feel it all.

If this episode resonated with you, I would love to hear from you.


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Single and Not SettlingBy Vanessa Maree - Your Wingwoman!