Worrying about how you might be perceived by others can make it challenging to make decisions, pursue your goals, or figure out your next moves. If you're failing in a project, you might be able to realize it yourself, but how do you break it to your community? If you leave work early for a weekly running group or other exercise, will it jeopardize your job? Should you keep your last name when you get married, or will your family and your in-laws be disappointed? And if your race didn't turn out the way you expected, does that mean you didn't train well enough, or race smart enough? Lauren and Jesse tackle these questions about perception and more—like, you know, if a triathlete pees on the bike, do they smell when they reach the finish line? Most of the time, it's best to take a look at the evidence and let you do you.