The Highly Sensitive Person Podcast

45. Are you a People Pleaser


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“Sure, I can work late tonight." “Yeah, you can crash at my place.” “I can babysit, no problem.” “I can lend you some money.”

These are things a people pleaser might say. People pleasers take on too much and don't know when to say "no". Their desire to please others and be seen as important and helpful can lead to overwhelm and resentment.

Today, I talk about why people have a have time saying No and some ways to stop being a pushover.

Other resources on being a people pleaser:

  • How to stop being a people pleaser from Oprah.com
  • Dr. Elaine Aron on sensitivity to criticism
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