I “should” do this, I “should” do that! Are you as confused as I am with all the shoulds? I believe that this word clouds the driven mind, and if it’s not excellent, it’s time to fix it or get rid of it. So let’s spend this episode thinking about some of the “shoulds” that we’re allowing into our minds that are paralyzing our growth. It’s time to set yourself free and let yourself want what YOU want.

 

Let’s jump right in and start destroying these “shoulds” and get some better clarity. 

 

[00:01 - 04:06] Opening Segment

• Welcome back! I introduce today’s topic
• • Destroy “shoulds” 
  • Grab The Six Diamonds of Change V. 2.0
• Thinking about some of the shoulds that enter the mind 
• • Paralyzing to growth
  • Example through my wife 
  • Destroying clarity 
• Where do they come from 
• • Examples in my life 
  • Releasing yourself into clarity 

 

[04:07 - 11:30] Destroy “Shoulds” for Better Clarity

• Adopting “shoulds” from authorities
• • My experience 
  • It’s your responsibility now 
• A snapshot of your needs 
• • Don’t miss out on best practices 
• What “shoulds” are holding you back
• • Stop it 
  • The positive effects of having clarity 
  • Destroying should fuels clarity 
• Examples from former clients
• • Driven by shoulds rather than clarity 
  • When “should” runs the conversation 
• When you kill off the “should” 
• • Stepping into your greatness 
  • Limiting perspectives 

 

[11:31 - 13:45] Closing Segment

• Your emotional regulation
• • When clarity shows up 
  • The six dimensions of change 
• You “should” release yourself from “should”
• • You are worthy 
  • It’s okay to want what you want
• Please write us a review and share this with someone
• • Email the review to me and get a FREE BOOK
  • [email protected] 
• Final Words

Tweetable Quotes:

"Stop it! It’s up to you to decide; and when you eliminate and destroy “shoulds”, clarity comes. With clarity comes action, with clarity of action comes passion…” - Kenny Chapman

“When you wake up and live a life that you “should” live, there’s no passion, there’s no excitement, there’s no fulfillment.” - Kenny Chapman

Resources Mentioned:

• The Six Dimensions of Change
• [email protected] 

 

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