Christmas is coming… which means the tree is going up, the group chats are popping, and your auntie is loading the question she asks every year like it’s tradition: “So… are you seeing anyone?”

In this episode of Subtext, Pastor Tim walks through what happens when dating meets the holidays—when “just vibing” starts feeling like hometown date energy. With Scripture as our compass (1 Cor. 6:18, Prov. 4:23, James 1:5, 1 Thess. 5:22), we unpack five questions to ask before you bring your boyfriend or girlfriend home: boundaries, clarity, motives, community, and guarding your heart.

Because love without wisdom is just vibes with a crash-landing and Jesus cares too much about your joy to let you drift into damage. Whether you’re single, dating, or somewhere in between, this one is for you.

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