Bill Hybels talked about a critical phase that every relationship needs to go through in order grow in intimacy and trust. He called this phase the 'Tunnel of Chaos'. His point was that everything within us will want to avoid the tunnel of chaos; to try to attain intimacy without having to go through this phase. We will be tempted to think that life will be easier, and the relationship will function just fine without going it. What he concluded is any relationship that isn’t willing to pay the price, and go through the tunnel of chaos, is one that will never function as God intended and will always leave you longing for more. In this episode, Rob talks about tools to use when you walk through the 'Tunnel of Chaos'.