Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Sara Gita Soble of Mindshift about effective communication in marriage. It's much more than words - it is a mindset.
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0:00 About this talk 3:18 Why do people communicate? 5:00 Where do people get stuck in their communication? 6:25 Communication is more than a set of tools. 7:21 It’s all about the mindset under the communication. 9:05 1. Create space 2. Find value. 13:11 Find the value in the other’s ideas. 14:14 Have genuine curiosity. 18:00 Assume there is value and then find it. 28:21 When there is respect, you can find wonderful solutions together. 29:13 What to do when values conflict. 32:56 In an environment of respect and safety, creativity can flow. 33:45 The 5 secrets of effective communication. 38:07 You don’t need to ever get to being on the same page. 41:18 Move from ‘your way’ and ‘my way’ to a third way. 47:08 We don’t need to control the whole situation. 47:48 Recap of the 5 secrets. 50:21 Wrap up