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47. The one thing you have to stop doing in your biz right now!
Ever heard of "comparisonitis"?
It's simple really: you are someone who compares yourself to someone else. You (knowingly or unknowingly) look outside yourself for ideas or validation.
GIRL, we all have! We all fall trap to comparisonitis at some point in our lives. But you're just confirming your own fears when you're busy comparing yourself.
If you're still stuck in it, let me help get you out.
💫 Just know that I want to pour into you because I want to see you go further than I have! I know you can, you just need a little direction to get there.
First, you need to know that we are all in different chapters or stages in our journey. Whoever you're comparing yourself to maybe farther in their journey than you. They might look like an overnight success, but they have probably been out here for YEARS just grinding to get where you see them now.
Also, it's okay to love to learn! It's okay to get inspiration and ideas from people you admire, but make sure you're not secretly comparing yourself to someone else in the back of your mind. COMPARE YOURSELF TO YOURSELF! 👏
Make sure you're focused on YOUR GROWTH.
Set goals and watch how far you've come! The goal should always be to be better today than yesterday!
Be intentional with what progress you want to make. Put blinders on and stop mimicking others. There is only one of you... and while you might be inspired by someone else, make sure you adapt things to you and for you! It's not wrong to want a mentor or leader, but just make sure you're not trying to become a carbon copy.
And for crying out loud, celebrate your wins, boo! Big or little. If you're not celebrating your wins, you're not giving yourself the credit you deserve. You need that validation... from YOU.
And take action! Don't just sit there smoking hope-ium; don't be the woman that just hopes things will happen. Take action! Don't feel like a failure. Failure is where we learn what didn't work and move on to something that does.
Now get out of your own damn way and start working on YOUR journey 😝💋
Check Out The 15 Min Biz Quiz mentioned in the episode to learn what you need to fix next in your business!
Let's BE FRIENDS UYB FB COMMUNITY: check out the awesome people in the tribe @femaleinsuranceagencyowners
UYB INSTAGRAM: Come check out some awesome resources @unburden_your_business
AGENCY BY DESIGN: If you're ready to take your business from stressed-out/maxed out to a money-making machine, come check out Agency By Design! https://www.unburdenyourbusiness.com/signup
FACEBOOK GROUP: Come join our Facebook group. A safe space for Female Insurance Agency Owners to connect.https://www.facebook.com/groups/femaleinsuranceagencyowners
Girl, make sure to say hi in the DMs I am all about getting to know more about you! So glad you’re here, Cassidy
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Ever heard of "comparisonitis"?
It's simple really: you are someone who compares yourself to someone else. You (knowingly or unknowingly) look outside yourself for ideas or validation.
GIRL, we all have! We all fall trap to comparisonitis at some point in our lives. But you're just confirming your own fears when you're busy comparing yourself.
If you're still stuck in it, let me help get you out.
💫 Just know that I want to pour into you because I want to see you go further than I have! I know you can, you just need a little direction to get there.
First, you need to know that we are all in different chapters or stages in our journey. Whoever you're comparing yourself to maybe farther in their journey than you. They might look like an overnight success, but they have probably been out here for YEARS just grinding to get where you see them now.
Also, it's okay to love to learn! It's okay to get inspiration and ideas from people you admire, but make sure you're not secretly comparing yourself to someone else in the back of your mind. COMPARE YOURSELF TO YOURSELF! 👏
Make sure you're focused on YOUR GROWTH.
Set goals and watch how far you've come! The goal should always be to be better today than yesterday!
Be intentional with what progress you want to make. Put blinders on and stop mimicking others. There is only one of you... and while you might be inspired by someone else, make sure you adapt things to you and for you! It's not wrong to want a mentor or leader, but just make sure you're not trying to become a carbon copy.
And for crying out loud, celebrate your wins, boo! Big or little. If you're not celebrating your wins, you're not giving yourself the credit you deserve. You need that validation... from YOU.
And take action! Don't just sit there smoking hope-ium; don't be the woman that just hopes things will happen. Take action! Don't feel like a failure. Failure is where we learn what didn't work and move on to something that does.
Now get out of your own damn way and start working on YOUR journey 😝💋
Check Out The 15 Min Biz Quiz mentioned in the episode to learn what you need to fix next in your business!
Let's BE FRIENDS UYB FB COMMUNITY: check out the awesome people in the tribe @femaleinsuranceagencyowners
UYB INSTAGRAM: Come check out some awesome resources @unburden_your_business
AGENCY BY DESIGN: If you're ready to take your business from stressed-out/maxed out to a money-making machine, come check out Agency By Design! https://www.unburdenyourbusiness.com/signup
FACEBOOK GROUP: Come join our Facebook group. A safe space for Female Insurance Agency Owners to connect.https://www.facebook.com/groups/femaleinsuranceagencyowners
Girl, make sure to say hi in the DMs I am all about getting to know more about you! So glad you’re here, Cassidy