Hosted by Jodi Hildebrandt In this episode, Jodi teaches the definition of The Voice / shame (and its cover-up, which is pride and arrogance). After giving an overview of The Voice (shame), Jodi answers 3 questions from listeners: How do you repair and help heal a child that you have been unconsciously passing your shame (messages from The Voice) onto? How do you put this information into childlike language that a child can understand? How do you validate someone who is mad at you for something you’ve done wrong? How do you heal from extremely toxic (shame-based) relationships, when they don’t have awareness of their behavior? Please ask Jodi your questions, and she will answer them on future podcasts! For more detail about shame, listen to the following podcasts: Shame is NOT Guilt! “The Faulties”

Jodi answers more excellent questions about addressing shame in relationships with self and others: How do you do your best at something without The Voice (shame)? How do you re-evaluate safety when you recognize that relationships are unhealthy or co-dependent? What is the difference between “getting rid of the list” (not holding past actions over the other person’s head) and navigating a relationship where one or both partners are not safe for the other? How do you build trust when it has either been broken or has (in retrospect) never really been established in a marriage in the first place? Do I need to go back to my childhood to identify where The Voice (shame) came from, or can I simply recognize I have it and move forward, shining truth on it? 

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