What do you do for fun after work, school, or your normal day? Do you go outside for walks? Play a sport you played in high school? It is very important to do things outside of your daily life for enjoyment. Instead of meeting someone and asking what they do for work, ask them what they do for fun. This will gradually change lead you to identify yourself not by the job you have, but instead by the things you enjoy doing. If you don’t enjoy what you do for the majority of your life, work to change these things to make sure you are able to have time for yourself.