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WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER IN THIS EPISODE

 

Medicine: 

• The inappropriate conversation and Falling in love with her hairdresser
• Why she calls her hubby her human Xanax

 

Marriage: 

• The firecracker and the volcano (fizzles out and destruction)
• Learning to take ownership over my experiences instead of controlling his

Money:

• Why asking for money is not greedy
• How feeling undervalued affects how we practice medicine

Negotiation:

• What is conversational intelligence
• What is negotiation
• How to create positive reactions with words
• How to create a higher trust, co-creative placed
• The addiction of being right

 

TAKE HOME POINTS FROM Dr. Linda Street

1. Negotiation does not have a winner and a loser, especially in marriage. This is a discussion where we WANT to agree. Why would we want our spouses to feel they could not trust us or not share their ideas? 
2. Language selection is SO IMPORTANT  in our conversations- appreciative over judgemental. I really want to understand...how can we parent in a way that we are both happy with instead of “Why did you…..” judgey to defensive mode, We both want to parent our children so they don’t end up in prison. Culturally we have been conditioned to be right...an addiction to be right!
3. Negotiating with our patients...What are their concerns? Why won’t they take the medication or follow our advice??? We have the same goals right? HEALTH!!! Stay curious!

WALK AWAY ASKING YOURSELF

• Who is my human Xanax?
• Am I addicted to being right?
• How can I approach my next conversation with language that creates a higher trust?
• How can I foster conversational intelligence amongst my children, spouse, and co-workers? 

 

FEATURED ON THIS SHOW

• Website: www.simplystreetmd.com, 
• Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/simply-worth-it-physician-negotiations/id1548597809
• Facebook: Www.facebook.com/groups/negotiather

 

*This podcast is a member of the Doctor Podcast Network