In this episode, we’re sharing our childfree journey — how our perspectives evolved, the doubts we navigated, the conversations we had (with each other and with ourselves), and how we ultimately chose a life that feels aligned for us.

For a long time, having kids felt less like a decision and more like the default setting. Somewhere along the way, that assumption cracked. What followed were years of questioning, strong opinions, relationship tension, unexpected clarity, and eventually… peace.

We talk about dating while being unsure, what it’s like to feel slightly outside the dominant narrative, what we’ve gained (and what we’ve knowingly let go of), and how we think about legacy, creativity, and partnership.

There are a lot of ways to build a full and meaningful life. This is ours.

We love our quiet life. And we chose it on purpose.

Intro & Outro music gratefully provided by our wonderful pal Captain Luke. Cover photo by the radiant Noelle Johnson.

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