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48: The Power of Communication in Motherhood with Shelley Tyson


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What if the most powerful tool you have as a parent isn't what you say, but how you listen? In this illuminating conversation with Shelley Tyson, we explore the transformative impact of speaking life over our children – especially during the challenging teenage years.

Shelley, a mother of four including three teenage girls, shares with remarkable candor how she's discovered that effective communication begins not with perfect words, but with attentive listening. "Words of life actually start with listening," she explains, "not just listening to the other person, but if you are a follower of Christ, it is listening to your Heavenly Father."

The conversation takes us through practical wisdom for navigating conflict with compassion, understanding hormonal influences on communication, and helping teenage girls navigate complex friendship dynamics. One particularly powerful insight emerges when Shelley shares how she helped her daughter preserve a friendship while maintaining healthy boundaries – demonstrating that clarity and kindness can coexist beautifully.

Beyond verbal communication, we discover how our daily rhythms silently communicate our priorities to our watching children. These unspoken messages often prove more influential than our carefully chosen words. As Shelley puts it, "They are observing and now it has that trickle-down effect of communication to them."

For the overwhelmed parent feeling stretched thin, Shelley offers this surprisingly simple shift: stop talking. By simply repeating back what your child says in the form of a question, you communicate value, respect and love without having to formulate the perfect response.

The conversation concludes with a moving reading of Psalm 139, reminding us that our identity and our children's worth are firmly established in God's perfect knowledge and love. Listen now to transform how you communicate with your children and speak life that nurtures their hearts and spirits.

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