John Miles explains why burnout and disconnection often stem from one overlooked issue: mattering. He shares how chasing achievement without meaning leads to emptiness, and why intentional choices—especially in relationships—restore fulfillment.

Through rapid-fire insights on sunk costs, mentorship, and self-doubt, John offers practical ways to realign with what truly matters, including why he believes these lessons must start in childhood.

Chapters:

00:00 — Welcome + stacking reps over time

01:35 — John’s mission: the idea of mattering

04:40 — Loneliness, burnout, and invisibility share one root 08:30 — Why modern life is eroding real connection

12:40 — Rapid Fire #1: Sunk costs & knowing when to quit 16:55 — Rapid Fire #2: Who he admires but never met

20:15 — Rapid Fire #3: Almost quitting—and pushing through doubt

24:10 — Rapid Fire #4: Mentors and how to approach them correctly

28:20 — Rapid Fire #5: Planning the year vs spontaneity

31:10 — Success, meaning, and the hedonic treadmill

35:40 — “Should vs Could”: values, control, and self-honesty 41:00 — Why John wrote children’s books about mattering 44:30 — Building the Matteringverse + where to find John

Find John Online:

Website: https://johnrmiles.com/

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/milesjohn/

X (formerly Twitter): https://x.com/John_RMiles

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/john_r_miles/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTLdXATpxf8LP3riC0_mkKw

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@john_r_miles

Blog: https://www.theignitedlife.net/

Podcast: https://passionstruck.com/passion-struck-podcast/

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