By Wayne Goldsmith

This is without doubt my favorite story to tell when I do Club visits, swimming parents workshops and coaching clinics: The 5 a.m. In A Swimming Household story.

Please share this with every swimming parent you know.

It is a funny story - but in my experience - having done hundreds of swimming club visits all over the world - it’s also very very true.

The bottom line - the key message to all swimming parents is this: STOP HELPING YOUR KIDS.

What I mean by that is continue to love them unconditionally, support them, accept them for who they are and value them the same regardless of their swimming performances BUT - stop:

* Packing and unpacking their swim bags

* Filling and cleaning their water bottles

* Washing and drying their towels and swimming gear

* Setting the morning alarm in your room and letting them sleep in

* Carrying their swim bag

Believe me - please trust me - you are NOT helping them by doing these things. I know you think you’re helping them. I know you love them.

But please stop doing it.

We want your kids to be independent, self-responsible and accountable.

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Wayne Goldsmith

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