They say the biggest burdens we carry is the burden of our thoughts; I think even bigger burden than that is the burden of other people’s thoughts.  We are all conditioned to be and live in the way we do until we realize that we had lost ourselves, our own voice and our own way of being and living.  This is the point where we begin to understand our own power and know that we have a choice to upgrade our beliefs and break free of the conditioning that brings pain and suffering.