The holidays are supposed to be magical… but for moms—especially new moms or those with little ones—they can feel like full-on chaos.

In this episode, I chat with my sister-in-law, Sloane Bartley, about the hustle and bustle of the season: juggling family traditions and trying to soak in the joy without losing your mind. Somewhere in the middle of our conversation, we realize we don’t just celebrate one Christmas… we celebrate five.

From having the hard conversations to toddler tantrums and everything in between, we get real about what it’s like to be a mom during the holidays, share laughs, and remind each other (and you!) that it’s okay if things aren’t picture-perfect.

Remembering Idyllic Christmas Traditions Before the Shift - 00:04:59

Navigating Holidays After Parents' Divorce and New Perks - 00:12:30

Juggling Multiple Family Events Before Kids Arrived - 00:22:59

Establishing New Traditions as First-Time Parents - 00:27:37

The Complexities of Blended Family Holiday Schedules - 00:38:40

Navigating Family Expectations with a Newborn During Holidays - 00:50:20

Why Protecting Immediate Family Time is Crucial - 00:56:53

Final Words and Advice - 1:00:00

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