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Episode 5: Clean Your Side of the Glass
In every relationship, there’s a kind of invisible window between you and your spouse. And over time, life fogs it up—misunderstandings, conflict, stress, assumptions. That glass gets harder to see through.
Most people try to get their spouse to clean their side of the glass. But real change begins when you take ownership of your own.
In this episode, Brett shares:
Why clarity is more important than control
A visual metaphor that will stick with you
How to use the 4 R’s (Regulate, Reassure, Reveal, Repair) to clean your side
Why your clarity often invites your spouse to respond in kind
This conversation will help you stop waiting, start showing up, and rediscover what’s possible in your relationship—one honest wipe at a time.
Mentioned in this episode:
 🎥 Free Class — The #1 Reason Marriages Struggle (and How to Fix It)
 👉 Click here  to watch now.
 By Brett Nikula
By Brett NikulaEpisode 5: Clean Your Side of the Glass
In every relationship, there’s a kind of invisible window between you and your spouse. And over time, life fogs it up—misunderstandings, conflict, stress, assumptions. That glass gets harder to see through.
Most people try to get their spouse to clean their side of the glass. But real change begins when you take ownership of your own.
In this episode, Brett shares:
Why clarity is more important than control
A visual metaphor that will stick with you
How to use the 4 R’s (Regulate, Reassure, Reveal, Repair) to clean your side
Why your clarity often invites your spouse to respond in kind
This conversation will help you stop waiting, start showing up, and rediscover what’s possible in your relationship—one honest wipe at a time.
Mentioned in this episode:
 🎥 Free Class — The #1 Reason Marriages Struggle (and How to Fix It)
 👉 Click here  to watch now.