The relationship with a partner can be the greatest source of love, intimacy, connection and joy. It can also be the biggest source of unhappiness, frustration and the feeling of loneliness. No-one teaches us how to do relationships! Our parents are often not the greatest role model and media bombards us with unrealistic expectations. In this episode I am look at five things I’ve learned in 25 years of marriage, working with relationship coaches and 15 years of therapy and coaching.