After I had spoken in a church, I was standing at the door talking with people when a guest approached me.  "I suppose you are one of those people who believe God sends people to hell!" the person somewhat sarcastically directed to me.  "No," I said somewhat matter-of-factly, "I don't believe God sends people to hell at all," pausing for this to register and then added, "I think we send ourselves there when we refuse the life God offers us, the One who sent His son to save us from such a place."