March 27, 2025

5 reasons you don't need friends!

7 minutes

Navigating friendships can be complex, and sometimes, it becomes clear that a particular friendship isn't sustainable. Here are five warning signs that a friendship might not work out:

Consistent One-Sidedness:

If you consistently feel like you're the one putting in all the effort—initiating contact, planning activities, or providing emotional support—it's a red flag. Healthy friendships involve reciprocity.

Lack of Mutual Respect:

Disrespect can manifest in various ways, such as belittling your opinions, dismissing your feelings, or disregarding your boundaries. If you feel consistently undervalued or disrespected, the friendship is likely to be damaging.

Frequent Drama or Toxicity:

While occasional disagreements are normal, constant drama, negativity, or toxic behavior can drain your energy and well-being. If the friendship consistently creates more stress than joy, it's a significant warning sign.

Erosion of Trust:

Trust is fundamental to any strong friendship. If your trust has been repeatedly broken through lies, betrayals, or breaches of confidence, it's difficult to maintain a healthy connection.

Feeling Worse After Interactions:

Ideally, spending time with friends should leave you feeling uplifted or supported. If you consistently feel drained, anxious, or negative after interacting with this person, it's a sign that the friendship is having a detrimental impact on your emotional health.

My three closest Best friends… and I believe you can really only have 1 best friend… but that is debatable- however I don’t think you can have more than three from what I see in scripture… anywhoooo

Here are three common denominators in these relationships

We don’t have to talk all the time… we may go weeks, but we can easily pick up from where we left off. The trust and the friendship is long and trusted so much so that nobody ever panics… did I do something wrong… he hasn’t texted or talked to me in weeks…. However we rarely go weeks without communicating.

2nd

We are brutally honest… and it does not affect our friendships whatsoever - in the least.

Bike trip… what you said was right, how you said it made you look like a butthole…

3rd and I truly believe this is a huge one. We all have the same sense of humor… yes ours is twisted, and would probably offend some…maybe quite a few, but that is a bond that is unbreakable… and it gets us through the tough times with each other. When I am ready to punch babies in the face they will crack me up many times at my own expense and I love it. It keeps me grounded. If you saw our texts you would think we were in Junior high…

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By Garth Heckman

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