The next day I thought about what Samantha said. She wasn't having sex because she wanted to have a relationship. And I was having mind-blowing sex hoping to turn it into a relationship. So there you have it. We've got a relationship without sex and sex without a relationship. Which had a better shot at survival? I couldn’t help wonder: what comes first, the chicken or the sex? 

Sex and the City 4x04: What's Sex Got to Do With It? 

In this episode, JD and Paige go off on the Coyote Ugly/Burlesque debate, our families' dessert recipes, and bi-invisibility. 

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