Beth and Jeff chat about how the enneagram became a useful tool in their marriage, concerns a Christian may have about using the enneagram, how to encourage your spouse to use the enneagram, and how we can use it to become our healthiest self vs. as an excuse for behavior.

EP. 16 with Beth McCord | Enneagram Coach From A Biblical Perspective

"Rather than our character defects getting in the way of our relationship they actually became an opportunity to connect with one another."

"For Beth and I, the enneagram is a helpful tool, but we believe that it's the gospel that's the power of God unto salvation.  It's the gospel that brings transformation.  The way in which we teach it is we have either removed, replaced, or redefined anything that doesn't align with a Biblical worldview."

Jeff speaks about "plundering the Egyptians." 

"The way the enneagram is taught today is radically different than the way they created it. Think of it less like Joseph Smith's, who founded Mormonism, who spoke to the angel Moroni and created an authoritative text. Think of it more like a professor who had a theory whose student's developed the theory more.  It's not something that's authoritative, because you can teach it from whatever world view you bring to it."

"The great thing about the enneagram is it's just clarifying why we think, feel, and behave in particular ways. It's like an x-ray. It shows what is broken, but it can't fix it.  That's where the gospel comes in. When I know that my heart is moving in a direction that is not Christ-like I want to come under the submission of Christ and the Holy Spirit and allow Him to transform that negative part of my thought processes and personality traits."

"It's almost like you have a new set of lenses, a new set of glasses, to be able to see yourself and your spouse.  Often times, we have this way of interpreting our relationships, that it's either they're doing something that is intentionally hurtful to me or there is a character defect in me that I can't seem to overcome...It's either their fault or my fault.  What the enneagram is helping us understand is that we carry a tremendous burden inside to try and make life work apart from the cross.  The enneagram gives us this new understanding that I bring a great gift to my relationship and I bring a particular bent or burden to my relationship."

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